My SILs baby shower was yesterday I was truly dreading it, but I had a great time! It was like a baby circus though lol (probably around 10 babies under 3 all at the same time) I held so many little ones I got my baby fix for the next month or two lol. I spoke with many friends who asked when we were going to have a baby and I told them we had been trying and it wasn't happening and to my surprise I didn't get any "well just stop thinking about it" instead I was met with understanding! It was really nice to get it off of my chest and felt like such a stress relief! I'm excited for the months to come with or without a bfp!!