Need advice please.. *UPDATE*

Okay. My boyfriend is currently in the middle of a deep depression and has anxiety as well. He has an appointment to see a doctor for medication this month.

I'm just feeling incredibly frustrated with him right now. We've had plans for months to go to a renaissance festival tomorrow with my family but he's trying to back out of it. I told him I didn't want him to come if I had to make him. I feel like I only ever see him once a week (we don't live together) he says he loves me and I really do love him. We just click so well but he's acting completely different than he was when we first started dating. He doesn't seem to have problems hanging out with friends but he never wants to come over or wants me to come over. I'm always the one to initiate it.

I just don't know what to do. I'm trying to be supportive and not pressure him into doing things he doesn't want to do but if we've had something planned he should follow through shouldn't he? I just don't know anymore.

Does anyone have any advice for me?

*UPDATE*

The boyfriend has been on Paxil for a little over a month and just told me today that he finally feels happy and like he isn't alone or worried about impending doom and I'm in tears bawling happy tears that he's finally just feeling normal.