Needing advice

So I am just needing to vent and need some advice. I love my husband more than anything. We’re actually pretty newly married. I know he loves me. But he used to not be able to keep his hands off me and he seemed so attracted to me.. not anymore. I feel so unattractive and unimportant. We’ve been trying to get pregnant and yes, I’m pretty down about it not happening. I’m also trying to get a puppy because my birthday is in a couple days and I have had to do all the research and literally drive him to a shelter for me. I make all the effort with everything and I am unable to work so I do extra things to make money so I’m contributing.

I try to go over and above so he is happy. I’m just so hurt right now. And he’s snoring..

I do tell him that I want him to make the first move and make it VERY obvious what I’m hinting at (literally sitting on the couch, legs on him, no pants..) nothing.

I went to bed tonight in just a shirt and wanted him to come on to me, just show he still wants me and finds me attractive. At the same time I wanted him to feel the way I do (rejected).

I know he is tired but he says he enjoys sex and he has never not “finished”.Even when I haven’t in a long time... he doesn’t make sure I do. I try to get him to care. I know he does but it isn’t showing.

I feel so unimportant and hideous.