How to know when you”re ready?

Hi!

I feel like this is a safe place to ask this question without having the pressure of your significant other or friends.

when do you know you’re ready to start having a family? I know everyone is different and I feel if I have to ask this question then maybe I’m not ready? My husband and I got married in June and he’s ready to start trying. I don’t know if I’m more afraid of the actual delivery and that’s what’s holding me back or if I’m literally just not ready yet?

I feel like an idiot asking this and in the back of my mind.... if I have to even ask this.. then maybe I just answered my own question.