Sad bombshell..

Hi,

Myself and my parter have been together nearly 6 years. We got engaged early this year and we are so in love and happy. We have been having unprotected sex for 2.5 years now and not once have I had a pregnancy or miscarriage. My fiancé has been checked and his results came back above average and they said that his sperm would be fine for natural contraception. I also had key hole surgery in June this year to see if there were any blockages in my tubes - all came back fine apart from a little endometriosis. We have been trying since. Yesterday he sprung it on me that he wanted to wait untill he was 30 (he's 28 at the moment) to have a baby. My issue is that I'm scared I'm infertile since I've not fallen pregnant, I don't want to wait in case I need to try IVF or similar. My mother and grandmother and older sister have all had the menopause early at just 35 which gives me 10 years! I feel so scared... We are on different pages and he even said tonight he doesn't know if he wants kids at all. This has completely shocked me and we have even discussed as adults that we may need to go out separate ways. I'm desperate to be a mother, but I cant imagine my life without my parter. I really don't know what to do and feel genuinely gutted. Any advice? Thanks x