So today my SO and I got into it about making time for each other. Some backstory: we've both just had deaths near to us, my grandfather, his friend, and both have significantly stressful issues going on. He lives 30 mins away from me and it seems like I'm always the one going to see him. I just lost my job so I don't have gas to be driving back and forth the way I was very willing to a couple weeks about plus I am super busy; midterms, school stuff, finding a job, family, etc... so I thought he would be understanding. When my grandfather died, I wanted to be with him but I drove myself to be with him instead of him coming to see me. Well today, he's upset because I was not willing to drive up there due to me being super busy today. Since he drives 30 mins to work near where I live, I suggested that we see each other here instead of us both traveling 30 mins to his place... makes sense right?? Well that wasn't good enough for him because he wants to be able to spend time with me and not have to be in the car or around my family... basically alone and somewhere that we can get comfortable... he told me that he was there for me in my time of need and that I wasn't about what I said because I wouldn't come see him. Mind you, I went to see him the next day after I heard his bad news and even missed class for him. I was hoping that he would compromise with me and meet somewhere so that we could just see and spend time with each other but no... I haven't heard from him since he got off work. I understand he is under stress but so am I and sometimes I have to prioritize my school and my finances and maybe sometimes I want him to come and see me for once 🎵 Am I wrong for turning him down and not going to him?