To Test or Not To Test? That tis the question. (updated 10/16)

Question

I had Nexplanon removed October 9, 2017. I'm not sure how reliable my calender is due to the birth control, but according to it I'm supposed to get AF on CD 17. Even on the BC I still had AF every month and on time just not like I would normally, meaning not as heavy or as painful after the first three months of it being in place. My husband and I made the decision to remove it and see if my OBGYN's theory was correct and the Nexplanon would give me the boost I needed to get preg. We started baby dancing asap, I'm having slight cramping in my right ovary and my tummies a bit upset with me. Should I test? I mean it's too soon for me to actually be pregnant right? We want to be.... But I'm so used to seeing BFN's that I don't want to test and see another.

So today I'm having diarrhea, my tummy is even more upset with me than it was yesterday. Hot flashes and a bit dizzy. What's going on with me?

Answer

As for the "is it too soon to test", yes! Wait until your next anticipated period, or two weeks after ovulation to test.(My aunt is an obgyn and explained this to me when I started TTC). Once an egg is fertilized it still takes SIX days to travel down and implant itself in your uterine lining. After that it takes 1-2 days for your body to start producing HCG or the pregnancy hormone. So the earliest you can test and get results, and the earliest you'd get symptoms, is day 7-8. 
Good luck!

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This is just my opinion, and I hope it doesn't come off rude. I'd always always test. If you are pregnant, you need to know so you can start getting your baby the proper care asap. If you don't test, you are wasting precious time to take care of your baby. So, I'd say set your fears aside, and try to remember this journey isn't just about you and your hubby anymore! Someday soon, a little one will be waiting on you to find out they are there and get the help they need to start their lives off right! Even if it is negative, that's okay! It stinks, but most couples take about 6 months, so it isn't the end of the world, you just get to start prepping for next month!!! It took us four months so I know how hard it can be but it's totally all worth it when you get your positive and start seeing your sweet baby. Good luck!

To Test or Not To Test? That tis the question. (updated 10/16)

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