I am wrong to feel a little upset?

Question

Whenever I fall asleep at night my boyfriend waits until I'm asleep to masturbate. I don't really know why but this irritates me a little bit. Some days I'll tell him I'm horny after a week of not having sex and he will say he can't because he has masturbated the moment he got home from work. Does anyone have similar situations and get irritated by this as well?

Answer

I would have serious talk with him about your feelings and how it’s not right for him to hold out on you while he pleasures himself. I know I would be livid if this was my situation, my husband and I agreed not to masturbate and to only go to each other for sex. Maybe try setting boundaries for both of you? Doesn’t have to be just like mine, every relationship is different. But I’ve found having boundaries and discussions about what we feel is and isn’t right really helps our relationship.

Answer

That would annoy the shit out of me. I'd have to talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel.

I am wrong to feel a little upset?

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