Should I?

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My boyfriend really wants to give me oral and wants me to give him oral. The whole thing wierds me out and I’m not sure why. He’s not pressuring me but whenever he brings it up I shut it down and isolate myself. Idk if I’m just being dramatic or if I have a legit reason.

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I used to be like you too 🙈 But once I tried it and happened the first time, I never looked back. It’s great to be pleasured by your partner to pleasure him/her back. You get to know your partner on a whole new level. Don’t be afraid that you are a sexual being.

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You’re clearly not comfortable doing it. Don’t do it.

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If you aren’t comfortable with it, then don’t do it. But if it’s something you haven’t ever tried, you can just think on it, maybe read more into it, see if you could feel comfortable with it someday, and then try it, just to see if you enjoy it or not.
I’m kind of back and forth about it, because part of me thinks “try it and see how you like it,” but then the other part of me is totally against doing anything you aren’t comfortable with. It is a personal choice.
My ex and i were together for almost 3 years before I every tried it.

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If you aren’t comfortable with it don’t do it. I personally hate giving oral and my husband has known this since day 1 so he doesn’t expect it often. Only on special occasions lol

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I was like this when it came to be giving him oral, I plucked up the courage and it wasn't actually that bad and now I enjoy doing it and how much he enjoys me doing it... But most important thing is that you're comfortable x

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I think a good way to look at it is being open minded. Try not to shut it down. Talk about your fears and concerns with your partner. The worst that can happen is you try it and you don’t want to do it again. If you end up trying it just go slow and vice versa. I use to be just like you as well. It’s actually very sensual and pleasing when you do it. It can be slightly awkward the first few times. You just have to find what you like and dislike. Good luck❤️

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