How do I deal with the fact that I've been attracted to the same sex? I have a boyfriend. He wants me to find out what will truly make me happy but anytime I try and talk to a girl to figure out if there's more to the attraction they're bitches lol I mean I can't even initiate flirting without them blowing me off and it's terribly hard to figure out. Any advice? I'm not trying to get hook ups with them just practice my flirting skills lol I guess I'm pretty bad at it or my radar is off...should I just accept it's harder to find same sex interests or keep looking? Where do I begin?