Hey ladies, I feel guilty I work with a man that is everything a girl wants, he's passionate, caring, spiritual, and understanding. he's also emotional but hides it all so well acting like "the man" I personally find that so sexy that he keeps up a front and hides all the wonderful pieces of himself. I'm going to be honest and say I have feelings for him, because my morals aligned with his and I felt a connection I never felt with any guy before, a safe feeling. Strangly I trust him even though in all 23 years of my life I never trusted anyone.. The problem is he has a girlfriend of 4 years and so I'd feel so guilty at even the thought of liking him... I don't know what to do with these feelings, I see him everyday it's killing me.