So my boyfriend and I just got back from a romantic getaway for my birthday... and on the trip we had sex a couple of times, like any couple would. Everything was fine and dandy while we were on the trip, but now that we're back, my boyfriend is feeling super guilty about having sex before marriage (since we're both Christian). I'm sad because I really really enjoy having sex with him and I'm very sexual as a person. How do I balance having any sort of intimacy and respecting my boyfriend's wishes??