help....

So I've been on birth control a total of 9 months. first 5 months was the ring and the last 4 months was the pill, all skipping my period. I went off the pill a little over 3 weeks ago, no period and just bfn pregnancy and LH tests.... sometimes reading this forums makes me feel better but right now I'm just getting frustrated. for so many people it takes months to get pregnant, or they get pregnant their first month ttc. I have no idea where my body is holding, nothing to track and it's starting to really get to me. I know it's just the beginning, but I hate that I can't figure out what my body is doing