Just breath

I know some people might get upset about this but it’s been on my mind a lot lately. Im trying to conceive in secret from the people around me and my friend told a few close friends (which includes me) that she is trying for #2. Now this women is an amazing mother but watching her try to conceive I realize she’s become obsessed with it, obsessively tracking everything, taking pregnancy test over and over again, and trying to find some answer to why she’s gotten another negative and dealing with that disappointment. It made me feel like I needed to tell her something and I figured I can share here as well. I know it’s hard but please don’t let your life be centered around trying for a baby whether it’s your first or your second or even your tenth. Enjoy your life in the now and honestly let that you’re trying for a little one float in the back of your mind, if you get a negative take it as a grain of salt and smile because you’ll get some good dick during ovulation again. Don’t obsessively search your body for symptoms that can somehow possibly be pregnancy, you’ll drive yourself crazy cuz sometimes bodies are weird. What I’m trying to say is don’t become gloom and doom because of a negative just take it a day at a time and just enjoy life.