I'm so impatient. With my first I didn't know I was and found out when I was almost three months, now six yrs later my hubs and I are trying and I just get so anxious. I used soft cups and sperm safe lube last month and got a positive but lost it due to chemical. Tried the cups again the past couple of days so I'm hoping it sticks this time! Really can't go through that again. All three of us want a baby so bad especially my daughter. Her baby timer is going off worse than ours lol