Mc, now finally pregnant, but with a rare form...

Jessica

My SO and I went thru a mc in July. we came together, grieved, and are stronger for it, thankfully. A couple weeks ago, we found out we are expecting again! we are so excited, but so worried now too. after going to the er with odd cramping in the side last week (figured they would tell me to rest and send me home, since there was no spotting) it has begun a whirlwind of activity, with a discovery that worries us and the doctors. the baby has set in the uterus well and is safe... but there is a twin, that didn't get in all the way. it's a very rare form of pregnancy, Hetero Ectopic pregnancy... they tell me 1 in 7000. I just had to be that one. they tell us that we have to either do surgery or an injection to save the baby that is seated well into the uterus. it's a no brainer for us, but I still am an emotional wreck about it all, and am already feeling guilty. I know that if this isn't done, not only will I lose the baby in utero, but I can also be at risk for internal rupturing. is there any chance at all that there is anyone out there that has been through this?? I am being reassured that the in utero baby will be safe during procedure, but I'm still so worried!! needing advice and prayers!