Emotional, mental, verbal & sometimes physical abuse at its finest...

He doesn't respect me and I sit here and take care of or daughter every single day and night we don't live together he comes around when he wants to every other day.. I get up to work every single day.. I just want someone who appreciates me and respects me... all I was trying to do was make it easier for him.. that's my problem.. I was going to bust my ass running around at 7am just to make everything for him smooth.. am I wrong?? Ladies I really need someone to talk to. I don't feel comfortable opening up to family or friends