My boyfriend is going to the strip club &/or the club with his buddies for his friends birthday ((which is fine with me)), I was supposed to go but the days got switched last min and I can't find anyone to cover my shift. The people that are going would be the day boy, his gf, her stepsis, and a few of their friends.

would it be fair to him if I told him that he couldn't participate in anything that involves with other girls? No dancing with strippers, dancing with girls at club etc?

Like I'm perfectly fine with him going but I know he's going to give me the "what's the point if I can't go and have fun and do shit" reasoning... is this fair to him or no??