Cycle buddies AF due may 2nd

Hello, I'm Jacquelin a 27 year old been ttc for 14 months ever since doc cleared me from my last pregnancy, lost a beautiful baby and one tube and ovary. Doc said it would be hard but tis month so far, breast tenderness is really bad, can't even wear a bra they hurt so bad, and abdominal area is kinda hardening, also gained weight but think I will attribute that to a recent move! Anybody wanna buddie?