So in short, my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years and living together for 1. He works 6 days a week and usually comes home around 8ish so we don't get much time together. We try to make plans together once a week. All the other days he has been having his friends over to smoke and hang out, watch the game etc. Whatever. But every time we have plans he conveniently has to stay later at work and then shows up wit his fucking friends. Sorry for the language but i am literally at my wits end. And his excuse is always "don't be mad but i can't say no to them". Like wtf? So you can cancel our plans to sit outside and smoke and watch the game? Lately i am feeling like I am not a priority at all. I love him very much but I am honestly so tired of the excuses and constantly being let down after spending time getting ready and making sure not to make plans with my friends on our date nights. When i tried to bring this up to him he always says, "we live together, i see you every night".

Am i being annoying or crazy? I am i overreacting? I know i can be clingy sometimes but i honestly don't feel like i am in the wrong here..Please give me some feedback or advice 😭