Confused and anxious Mthfr

I come to all super confused and WORRIED! My husband and I are ttc our first LO. I am blessed in that I found out I was MTHFR homozygous as a 16 year old whilst also receiving a von willebrands diagnosis. My doctors (gyn, heme, mfm) seem to have no freaking clue what they’re doing! I’m currently taking a smarty pants prenatal, and seeking health optimal pc, vitamin d drops, fish oil, and probiotic. I’m all organic and read labels like a crazy lady. Is there anything else any of you have had success with? Aspirin is off the table bc of my von willebrands. I realize this won’t be easy given the Mthfr and Vwd but it would be soooo nice to have clarity from the docs. It feels super hopeless and just like I’m shooting in the dark every month.