Spouse addicted to Porn.

I am so broken tonight. Here, my boyfriend and I, bought our first home August 4th. I have children from a previous relationship. My boyfriend is 41 years old and has never had children or have been married. We've never lived with each other before tbe purchase of our new home. We've talked about having a child together, but no luck. But since we've moved in together, he barley touches me. I've talked to him before about it, and he claims to be tired etc. The other day I grabbed his phone to get on line and saw that he's been looking up all this porn! I'm completely upset! He can look at porn but not lay a hand on me???? What do I do??