how do you know when you are done having kids? I have 2. 5 year old and 1 year old both girls. my husband and i always said we would have 2.... maybe 3 babies. Am I done?!?! I think 2 is good, but looking at pregnant photos and newborn pictures makes my heart hurt I want 1 more! I am a sahm so I am able to to be prego again, but actually having the child costs so much! and I am the oldest of 3 girls so I don't want my baby P to be a middle child (my sister has alot of issues... may not be related to middle child syndrome.. but I dont want to risk it) .. but am I done?? how do I make myself feel ok with only having 2?? my heart hurts thinking I won't have more babies, but I think it is the better choice 😐😔😯😢