Husband vs. Ex boyfriend

Idk what to do. Ive been with my husband for 4 years, dated for 2, married for 2. We have a beautiful 1 year old daughter together. I recently reconnected with my ex boyfriend who is in and out of my life fairly often. Now my husband as you can guess does not like him nor does he know about me talking to him throughout the years on and off. My ex was my first boyfriend, my first love. We dated throughout middle school and high school until senior year. My ex is a single parent and wants to be with me as do i. I love my husband, but i love my ex. the secrets and hiding are not working out for me its so stressful. i dont want to loose either of them because i love them both so much in different ways. WHAT SHOULD I DO ?!?!?! I stuck at a cross road. i dont want to hurt my husband. i dont know if i want to stay or go. im so confused :((((