So my SO and I have been together just over a year. I’m currently just over 7 months. In the beginning he told me he wanted me to stay home with baby and he’d support us (he makes plenty of money). I was very happy with his decision. However the farther down the road we get I’m not sure it’s such a good idea. Before we moved in together I had my own home (with my best friend), a car, a phone, and paid all of my bills and was living comfortably.

He has started to say thing like that he won’t give my gas money to take my son to school each day. Or that I don’t expect him to provide food for my children right?

Today we got in the conversation that I didn’t ever have my own home because my best friend (Kevin) lived with me and since he is a male it was actually his house.

I said “what if we get a house together” he told me that I’d live with him but my name wouldn’t be on anything.

Or the other day we were in the shower and I told him to smell my new shampoo. He just looked at me and said “ don’t expect to be buying stuff like that when I’m paying for it.” It was a small bottle of fredmyers brand organic shampoo. I paid like 4.99 for it 🙄

I want to stay home with baby like I did with my other two babies but I’m not sure if it’s going to be ideal for me at this point.

My last relationship was completely different. We shared everything and he loved getting me a little extra something when we could afford it.

I feel stuck. 😑