I love my husband. We have normal arguments here and there but he is very good to me. BUT very often he’s inconsiderate of what anyone wants but himself. Usually it is small things such as where to eat, where to go when go somewhere, how long we stay places, etc. which even though annoying I can deal with. We have been saving for two years to buy a house and we are finally moved in after 6 months of fighting a lender. We’ve only been in our house about a month and we have been talking about TTC once he graduates in May. But now I’m a week late for my period. It was briefly mentioned the other night and he responded with “you’ve been drinking that’s good” meaning hopefully that would “take care” of the problem (I had drank before I was late for my period). I was shocked that he would say this to me because we already have a beautiful two year old and we have already been talking about baby number 2. He made me feel terrible for being late and made it seem as if he would want me to abort the baby if we were to be pregnant. I’m heartbroken, I understand why he doesn’t want a baby right now. We just bought a house, he has one semester left until graduation, and we just need to get a few ducks in a row before we have another baby. But in my mind we have 9 months, if I am pregnant to finish all of this, he graduates in May and if I am pregnant I wouldn’t be due until The end of June. I just don’t know what to do if I end up being pregnant I want to be excited. But I know that I can’t be because of my husband and his reaction. I’m just not sure how to feel or what to do. Anyone else ever gone through something similar? How did you deal? How do you make a choice?