How to get it back

We've been going through rough times like crazy..how can we ignite the spark back and get things moving the way they were?? How can I remind him of why he fell for me in the first place? I want to give him his space and be trusting but after awhile I get tired of him wanting to go out with his friends all the time. Anyone else to through something similar? How did you get over the hurdle and get him to not go out as much??

I honestly feel like I'm really boring so date ideas would be cool too..

Thank you ladies!!