Do you think that he's cheating?

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So I was just cleaning mine and my husbands bedroom and I found underwear on my floor that do not belong to me. I never ever have had any issues with my husband but I can't think of any other reason there would be underwear on my floor. I asked him about them and he said he has no idea and he's never seen them before. What do I do? And what do you think?

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They had to come from somewhere.  I've read your replies to the other comments and something just isn't adding up. I'm sorry to say this, but it isn't normal to find strange underwear in the marriage bedroom unless something shady is going on. Where in the room did you find them?

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Do you do your laundry at a laundromat? Maybe it was stuck to the side of the washer and wound up in your load? Any other second-hand or borrowed things come into your house recently? (Suitcases, clothing, washer/dryer, etc.?) I let a friend borrow a suitcase for a big trip once and found some random things in a side pocket while unpacking from my own trip months later. And once my husband did our laundry at his parents and accidentally brought home his mom’s shirt (he thought it was mine).

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Are they clean or dirty?

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I’ve accidentally left underwear at friends houses before, my guess would be from someone else who stayed at your house at some point? Reactions tell a lot about if men are being honest, if he didn’t make it a big deal and isn’t getting annoyed I would trust him. I guess just be cautious of any other signs.

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I mean, if you trust him and you two are happy together then it could be highly likely they’re from a guest that just forgot about them. Who knows how long they’ve been tucked under where ever they came from. When my sister would come home she would sleep on the living room couch naked giving no cares to everyone else that lives here, l’d randomly find her underwear in the couch or under the couch. Anything is possible.

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do you live in an apartment complex?

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Whose house is it? did he live with another girlfriend in the past at your house?

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There are used panty websites where men will purchase for their own pleasure. Kinda odd but that's another possibility. I know if thong underwear showed up in my house there would be a reason for it.

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Is he a little sketchier than normal? Can you tell if he’s lying or trying to cover something up? It’s a little fishy

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Anyone stay at your house recently? Do you guys have any family or anything that comes over? This is really fishy:/

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