So annoyed with my husband 🙄

Am I over reacting??

I just had my baby two days ago and we were released at 11pm last night, my son had a really rough first night and he was extremely fussy and didn't get any sleep. So today Ive been extremely exhausted and overwhelmed with how many people came over to meet our baby. Well one of his friends was blowing him up last night trying to hang out with him once we got home. He had told him no eventually but to me I thought it was pretty rude of his friend to want him to be up with him drinking when we JUST had our baby.. well today this same friend shows up and him and this friend start drinking. Im furious because I feel its rude and so selfish of my husband to not give me this time with him and our kids!!! This friend is STILL Here and its 9pm and I'm ready to freakin explode on my husband for being so selfish and inconsiderate!!!

UPDATE*****

After I posted this he ends up walking into the room to check on me and I end up exploding and not holding back. I couldn't come at him calmly at all. He saw the look on my face before he made it all the way through the door. I told him that i couldn't believe that he was being so inconsiderate of the fact that i have been needing his help all day and he's to busy up his friends ass drinking that he didn't think maybe i should enjoy my newborn and help my wife! I also told him that I'm not putting up with this childish shit his friend needs to leave and he needs to grow up and help me. Ive literally had the baby and our five year old all day i got to the point i was so mad i could even piece my words together and told him to get out and go do what more important then us. All this time he's just starring at me lost like he didn't know 🙄🙄🙄 he made his friend leave and just lingered around me letting me chill out.. after i did he apologized.. i told him no one is coming over tomorrow or the days after unless visiting the baby briefly because this is a time we need as a family to adjust. Why do husbands have to be like such children acting like they don't know better sometimes ugh!!