I have 2 kids with 2 different men. I am now in a great healthy relationship. We are ttc and I just feel like I am going to be judged for having a baby with yet another man. I was super young when I had my first 2. Any1 else feel this way?

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I have a close friend who has 3 kids, and 3 baby daddies. I judge her. Sue me. it's in our nature to judge the uncommon. she's also in a very happy relationship with the last baby daddy and she's doing the best she's ever done.

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Haters will hate no matter what Hun, my mum always says to me it's doesn't matter who the father is all that matters is who the mother is the children are loved by all 💕 best of luck and congratulations xox

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My mom has 6 kids and 4 different baby daddy’s but she was really young with the first three(started at 17 then had me at 21) and tied her tubes after she had me. Then when she was 31 decided to try IVF for a boy (we were all girls) and got twin girls, decided she was done having kids and it would have to be God’s will for her to have a boy. When I was 16 my ex-uncles 3 week baby boy was placed with her through CPS and she eventually adopted him two years later. It can be easier for people to initially judge you but there are people out there who understand that you don’t just have two kids with two different men, you have a testimony. Anytime someone tries to talk crap about so and so having all these kids with all these different men I will be the first to stand up for them and say “hey, my mom was woman and she is remarkable and I would be lucky to be half the woman she is”. Just keep the faith ❤️

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Who cares what people think. Do what make you happy!!

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People judge others for pretty much everything they do. If you are happy and want another child and are able to take care of your family, don’t worry what other people think. You can never win.

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You're going to get judged no matter what you do so who cares what people think? do what makes you happy not everyone around you. if you want another child with this man and you're sure about it then I'd say go for it. my husband has 2 kids from 2 different women. (first one he was young one night stand second one from a previous marriage) and were ttc my first and his 3rd.

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People will judge regardless if it’s the same baby daddy or not actually people will find something always like he’s a deadbeat dad so honestly it’s your life don’t live it pleasing others the sooner you learn that the happier you’ll be

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My husband’s friend mom has 6kids from 6different fathers, 2 blacks 2 Latino and  2Caucasian and now she is dating an Indian looking guy ,who I briefly met once at the mall and doesn’t speak much English .  She i has that baby face and young looking attractive figure , u can’t tell she is in 40’s. It’s hard not to judge but just have a lot of questions but non of my bizne🤷‍♀️

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Do what makes you Happy. You are the only one that has to live with your decisions

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F them. I have 3 kids by 2 different men. In a new relationship very serious and best of my life we plan to get married down the line and I want 2 kids with him. In his words “who gives a f*ck”. People always talk anyways for EVERYTHING so just live your life to please yourself. I’ve heard crap already about having my last kids back to back but it’s my body my life and I take care of these little people not anyone else so they can go find some business of their own to mind I’d say. Be strong and like Teflon girl!

I have 2 kids with 2 different men. I am now in a great healthy relationship. We are ttc and I just feel like I am going to be judged for having a baby with yet another man. I was super young when I had my first 2. Any1 else feel this way?

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