how much is to much traveling.

my fiance travels with his job and he leaves tomorrow for a shut down. I have a doc appointment on Thursday so I'm not leaving with him. I have to go home to put tags on our car on Friday which is 7 hours from where we are now. I plan on staying the weekend there before I go to my dad's house which is 2 hours from his parents house for a few days to have rest of my family meet my daughter, then plan on going to my mom's house which is a hour and half so my family on her side can meet my daughter then driving to where my fiance is on a shut two for 5 days then going back to his family house which is 8 hours but we will be there from the 8th to the 18th and then coming back to where we live now on the 19. is that to much traveling for my daughter or should I tell my fiance that I won't come to hotel? but I hate that he is going 2 weeks with out his daughter