Low libido while breast-feeding and boyfriend shaming me for it

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I’ve looked it up, and they say it’s pretty common to have a low sex drive when breast-feeding. It’s definitely true for me! I tried explaining to my boyfriend that it’s not him, I just don’t have any desire to have sex. I’m a stay at home mom, so I spend all day catering to our child and taking care of our house, but I just don’t feel appreciated. He’ll start make comments, ‘jokingly’ as he says, about how he never gets to touch to me anymore or that I never touch him. He ‘jokes’ so much that I’ve asked him to stop because it makes me feel bad (I can’t help my lack of drive), and he keeps telling me that I can’t really feel that bad about it because I still don’t sleep with him.

I feel pressured to have sex.