What the heck should I do???
My husband has always been like so attractive to me. We have been together almost 10 years. He had a typical “Dad bod” I guess. He was big, bearded, tatted, muscular. Like a bear. He was so hot to me. Even with a little belly.
Well when our daughter was born he swore he was going to get in shape so he could live a long healthy life. I was like ok cool that’s wonderful!
But he started going to a weight loss clinic instead of doing it the old fashioned way and he has lost 50 lbs in 8 weeks. He looks unnatural to me. He looks sickly and strange. I miss his old physique. I told him to please stop going to the clinic but he won’t. He keeps saying ok after 20, 30, 40 more lbs I will.
I am scared that all that medication is bad for him and he looks weird and I’m not attracted to him like I used to be. I love him unconditionally so it doesn’t make me ill but I find myself looking at him and just staring like I don’t know this person.
Other people (like his fat mom) are encouraging him. They just see his loose clothing and say “Good job!”
I don’t know what to do at this point.
I married a strong, chubby stud who is quickly becoming a stick person with small saggy boobies. (I’m sorry but it just looks wrong!) I know he’s losing weight way too quickly. He told me he doesn’t care how he looks he’s doing it for the health benefits.
I love he wants to be healthier for our daughter so I don’t want to offend him or discourage him.
Any advice?
Hey used to look like the picture below.

Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.