Infuriated!!!
So earlier this week I found out there's a few girls who always flirt with my bf in college. We go to different schools so I have no idea what goes on. He told me they're thotties & flirt with all the football players...that nothing will ever happen in regards to them. Like never.

We see each other Thursday nights-Sundays only. I was having a really bad day yesterday & just wanted to cuddle with him. By my mistake, I jokingly asked if any girl flirted with him today. He said yes & I asked what did they say...he laughed & said nothing. Like he wouldn't tell me.

Me being the over thinker, I kept asking because in my mind I'm like "what on earth was so special that she said??? He's told me what they've said before?". He was still laughing so I was still going for it but my mistake. We ended up getting into a HUGE argument as to why he wouldn't tell me. I just felt as if he was hiding something....like imagine if I refused to tell him what a guy said to me...he's be pissed.

We finally calmed down & he told me exactly what this girl told him. Apparently she told him "Looking good today...you have a nice butt (or maybe she said ass idk)". I'm like okkkkkkaaaaayyyyyy.

I asked him what he said back & he told me he didn't know what to do, said thanks & just walked out. But according to him it wasn't a nice "thanks" but a rude one. I know I get jealous easily but WHO ON EARTH says that to a random guy in their class ?!?!?

I asked him why he couldn't say something like "thanks, my gf thinks so too." Or "I know, my gf tells me all the time." He told me he was just so shocked that he didn't think of it at the time & just wanted to leave. He's still telling me that he doesn't like her (or the other girls I guess ?) & that they really are whores. He reassures me & now I know why he didn't want to tell me, but I'm still so worried. Idk why?!?? What do I do about this without sparking another full blown argument over a girl who doesn't mean s***. He's told me he doesn't want to hear it anymore, but now that this has happened I'm even more curious to know everything!! Not only that, it seems to be happening more often than I initially thought. I thought it just happened a couple times this semester, but it's A LOT more than that since they have class 2 times a week.

P.s. I've been with this man for over 3 years & have been through so much & ive always had to deal with this...my mans is just beautiful but I wish I could keep them away.
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