How often are you suppose to have sex?

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Hey!I have been married to my husband for 7 years now and we have two kids.I have noticed that our sex life is not the same anymore,in the past we used to have sex like 20 or 28 days in a month but now we barely have sex,like 5 or 6 times in a month and it's getting to me so much,have tried to turn him on but it doesnt work and he

pushes me away sometimes saying his tired.what can I do?pliz help I don't want to cheat on my husband

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There's no rule about how much sex you should have...and fwiw my husband and I average 5-10x per month and always have. He works A LOT and is tired during the work week. 
There are many other ways to be intimate with your spouse, if you're thinking about cheating then sounds like there's another issue going on.

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Really? You'd cheat on your husband because if the lack of sex? Mm okay... 
Why is that on your mind? Why not get a vibrator? Do both of you work? Just him? Have you guys tried maybe in the weekends?

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you'd cheat on him because you're having sex once a week or so? That's really not bad. my husband and I average about every 4 days.  Talk to him about needing more

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Why would you cheat over your sex life. youre ready to lose your marriage? When hes home we  have sex every other day..hes come for 9 months now, glad i don't have the mind set to even think about cheating due to no sex 🤷

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Or you could talk to him about it? It's normal for your sex life to get a little stale and slow down after marriage and kids. You made a commitment to be faithful to your husband. If you can't keep that vow, then leave him, but don't cheat. That's a horrible thing to do to someone.

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Maybe you should let the poor man go if your response to less sex than you’d like is cheating

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Lol plz help, I don't want to cheat on my husband 😂😂😂😂 
How pathetic are you??

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So that’s a little over once a week. That’s a normal amount for a busy couple with kids. If you want sex more often, try a few different things to get things going and see what works for you two. There is no correct amount of times you should be having sex as long as you are both happy. And obviously you realize this but cheating on your spouse is never, ever ok. Even if you never have sex. Fix what you have. Don’t look elsewhere.

How often are you suppose to have sex?

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