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My boyfriend and I love each other and plan to get married one day. But I'm also 18, I want a baby already, we have unprotected sex a lot and he says to get an abortion if I ever do get pregnant. I don't want to... What should I do? He wouldn't be happy with that decision because of how our parents would react to it and doesn't think we're ready

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You shouldn't be having unprotected sex if both of you aren't ready for babies. Having a baby is a big deal, it's not a game that you can just stop playing after awhile.

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he doesn't sound like he ready for children if his idea of birth control is abortion! sorry just my opinion but you want to make sure you are both on the same page in regards to bringing a new life into this world!

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An abortion is never the answer when you don't know if you're ready! If you have an abortion when you know you don't want a child, then ok, if not talk to him, the choice to have a child is the woman's, not the mans, it is your body, not his, so your dicision!

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If abortion is his definition of birth control you need to be in something or use condoms! He obviously doesn't want children & you need to think of the life of the baby you'd have. Can you see yourself being pressured into aborting a human life?? Or are you satisfied have a baby that the father wants nothing to do with? Important questions.

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You know ahead of time that he will want you to have an abortion and he's not ready. I say get on bc until your both ready. Not just because I'm against abortion but you do both want children later and an abortion can possibly effect your fertility later. It's also much more risky to your health than bc is. Don't do anything your going to regret either way.

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Talk to him about it and maybe start using protection? He cant make you get an abortion

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talk about it. a baby is a huge commitment.

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