Just found nudes on bfs phone
Title is pretty self explanatory, found a picture of some other woman's boobs and her vagina in my bfs pictures from September 10th . Meanwhile our baby is due in a month and a half , what do I do ? He's sleeping right now . My body is shaking and my stomach is in knots , this is the man who's always telling me he can't wait for our family , getting married and acts so happy and everything, oh and our anniversary is this Wednesday. F*CK ME RIGHT . Do I wake him up and ask him about it ?
***UPDATE***
Sorry I haven't been able to keep up with all the comments I didn't think this would get much attention so fast 😩🤦🏻♀️
So firsts things first I did save the pictures, I actually made a video of me opening both pictures (one was a picture of her laying down with a bra on and a boob out , the other was a close up of her vag with her legs spread open) they definitely weren't professional bc 🙄 I've taken better pictures than these 😒 so I know for a fact it's a normal person not from a porn website or whatever . I sent the video to my best friend to save to her phone so he can't go on my phone and delete it or whatever .
I did wake him up after I got off the phone with my best friend at 2 AM and I said can you come sit out here I need to talk to you . Took awhile to get him out to the living room and after that I said can you sit down , and I said who's picture is that and he goes what are you talking about I said the pictures on your phone , they aren't of me , the tits and vagina? And he acts clueless for a minute and then goes off saying his guy friend jace sent them to him , (BULL SHIT I KNOW) and I said no they aren't from jace tell me who is in that picture and who they are from well he doesn't want to say anything except that they're from his friend and they were "accidentally" saved from snapchat. Bullshit again bc snap chat doesn't save unless you manually save the pictures. Im a snapchat addict so I know .
At that point I couldn't hold back my tears and I start bawling and he starts trying to kiss my ass and trying to confess his love for me whatever all that lovey shit and I then he says let's just go to bed (he had work the next morning) and I tell him no I can't sleep next to him all I'm going to do is get worked up and stress over it not get any sleep and so then he gets pissed bc I refused to sleep in our bed with him and he storms off down the hall and calls me a bitch whatever and slams the door but at that point I was like fuck you mother fucker in head lol
So I slept on the couch which btw was actually pretty comfy !
Next morning comes around and he gets ready for work and leaves with out saying a word to me . Nothing . He tried calling at noon but I missed the call , he came home 2 hours later and came up to me (still on the couch bc I still haven't slept) and he still is trying to kiss my ass and shit , and still says it's from his guy friend so after going back and forth a million times I tell him "well if it's from your friend you wouldn't mind deleting him off your snapchat , right since he really did cause this whole ordeal , bc what 'friend' is going to send you something to jeopardize and cause problems in not just your relationship, but your family"
And he goes off about how he's not gonna delete his friend off of snapchat and blah blah blah and I say "because you know damn well he didn't send you those !" And still to this day (Monday ... this all went down Friday night) he only tells me that they're from his friend. I'm not sure if he has deleted him yet but I highly doubt it but I plan on confronting his friend in person maybe .. ask him detailed questions about the pictures, like what were they pictures of and whatnot and why he felt the need to send him those kind of pictures and whatever , Bc any guy friend would take blame but if he fails to answer those questions clearly it wasn't from him and just proved me right .
My boyfriend on the other hand has been acting way different since then , a whole 360 in his attitude, the way he acts towards me, buying me a whole lotta shit and our son ( which doesn't make up for what he did but I'm not complaining)
The truth will come to light eventually until then , I'm focused on building something for me and my son to fall back on if things go south , I don't have family here in the state we live in or any friends so I really just have to depend on myself.
I should post the picture but 🤔🤔 fuck it here it is
I tried to brighten the picture up bc like I said i took a video of them in his gallery the first picture has one boob hanging out of the bra and the second one is an up close shot of her vag and her hand 🙂
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