Have any of you ever dated a guy where their mom tells you to convince him to go back to college, and talk to him to be less of a workaholic so he can spend more time with his family.

Well I have. My boyfriends mom went we met was ( still is ) one of the sweetest woman I’ve met in a long time but from the start I noticed things I just never said anything...till now.

First thing that honestly offended me was the way she talked about Cubans ( that’s where my family is from and she’s Guatemalan ) for example she would say “ oh you know I have a acquaintance that was such a great person you know for a Cuban hahaha” at first I didn’t get taken back but it still pops up

Second thing is she is shady as hell. In September we had a hurricane and they were one of the few that had power and my family didn’t. The thing is that I’m on medications and was sick at that time and my mom thought it was best if I asked him and his mom if I could spend the night. Of course she said yes but however a few days later their power went out for 10 mins and she literally told him “ son I think I’m gonna send you to a friends house while we stay here with no power

Third thing is that a few days ago well read below I sent it to a friend

Keep in mind his mom bought a $1000 vacuum cleaner as if that was necessary

And finally.... the final straw.

Thru out all of these I’ve never felt more disrespected in my life. Since him and I started dating my mission was to get on her good side and I thought I did since she allowed me to take her 5 year daughter to places. I shouldn’t have to but I want to and supposedly she talks good about me to her family but I’ve never heard her actually say anything... opinions on everything,??