How do you (or did you) stay hopeful?

My husband and I have been TTC for  8 months now, and each negative test feels more and more devastating (BFN this morning). I am starting to feel like it is never going to happen for us. My cycles are regular, we BD every day in the fertile window (and have also tried every other). We have healthy diets, are taking vitamins, and so forth. I really don't know what else to do. My husband is going to schedule an appt to get a semen analysis, and I see my Dr. next month. It's just so hard to be hopeful and pick myself up after so many BFNs, especially when so many friends and family members get their BFP right away. 😔 Does anyone have any advice that helped them get a BFN or anything that helps you push through the next month? Each day feels like an eternity of waiting. I feel like I am becoming more discouraged and less optimistic with each passing month. Baby dust to all of you patiently waiting ❤️