I'm planning my baby shower for when I'm 32 weeks. Everyone keeps telling me to have it when I'm between 28-30 because after that point I'll be miserable. My doctor isn't sure he'll let me carry full term due to being high risk and my BP but hasn't said for sure yet.. it's a wait and see game basically. But my question is should i have it earlier or stick to the 32 weeks date that I have picked? When did you ladies have yours?