BFP at or after dpo16

Cassie

I think I am somewhere around 16dpo. No AF, no BFPs. No symptoms of either. I am so upset. I just want to be pregnant or move on to my next month of trying. I feel like I am at a stand still in the process. Just today I started to feel an odd mild cramp on just my left side. Anyone have experience with this and get a BFP?