my fiance goes for his reversal next week now he got this done way before he met me. He has his reasons and that's his business I will not share. But we both had agreements before getting married. His was wanting to wait a year after were married to have a baby (our wedding is next year) Mine was that I wanted his reversal done sometime before we get married. We both agreeded. But here's my concern since I went to the doctors with him to talk about getting it done. since he's had it done for so many years there's only a 30% chance and I feel like the doctor was being nice with that number. and I feel with that and him getting older my chances are going to be slim to none. I don't have any kids and all I've ever wanted was to be mom. I haven't talked to him yet but I want to start trying when he is healed and everything. but how do i get him to understand my concerns and why I want to try to start now.