We found out yesterday that my husbands youngest brother and his wife are expecting. I would be happy for them but they live with my in laws still and neither of them work, so who's going to be taking care of their child. I understand things happen but they were trying for a child. They are the same people that got married two days before my husband and I so they could get attention. Any money they get goes on drugs they refuse to help my mother in law clean, cook or do anything for that matter. It might just be my hormones going crazy but I am highly aggravated