Husbands pushing my buttons!

He is out on medical leave so he is ALWAYS home. I am use to him being gone 4 nights a week. To add to that he isnt doing a dam thing. Isnt cleaning or cooking and wont freaking put out. If im working cleaning and cooking I better be getting gifts or laid. But im not. Im a pretty traditional wife. I dont mind cooking and cleaning since be makes most the money but he isnt making it right now. His wrist is sprained he isnt broken! Im so ready for him to go back to work. Plus he had the balls to tell me im over reacting when I lost it and started crying. Now he wants me to being home dinner...... Didnt even say please. Why do men randomly just think we should drop everything and care for them? Ugh