Husband of 8 years was caught cheating online. It's been 3 years with most of the women. Although he says he's never been with them face to face. My biggest issue is that he spoke to them about me and our children. Our problems and our future. Why would he do this? He says I publicity humiliate him when I mention he was a virgin and that our children will need braces due to his side of the family. Yea I'm a bitch.  :-( I told him I honestly didn't know it bothered him. It's only brought up if friends ask. Do I deserve what he's done? Every holiday and our anniversary he talked to them and cyber sexed. He did this 7 years ago also.