So like a while ago, a good family friend introduced me to her neighbor that was a guy same age as me and everything. Well we hung out a couple of times and I ended up liking him and his aunt said he took a liking to me as well. Summer came and we both got pretty busy only talked here and there... sometimes id text him and he’d open and would answer. I’d offer to hang out and plans would fall through. However he still hinted at the fact he was interested and he knew I was as well. So I didn’t want to look desperate so I left him alone I didn’t text him at all or anything. I figured well if he wants to talk bad enough he will. So like a week goes by, another guy had started texting me and I just talked because I figured well maybe the other guy just isn’t right for me or lost interest. However I didn’t want to believe that because no other guy I talk to makes me feel nearly as happy as the other. Well that night I talked to someone different, he texted me and kept conversation for a long time. Which this was a shock because he is very shy and never texts me first. Since then he’s texted me first a lot and I’ll text him first too so he doesn’t feel like I don’t like to talk. I tell him everything and he’s there for me more than anyone else. But my problem is, why is he so like afraid to hang out with me? It makes me so confused because if we talk all the time even on friend terms, he still like seems afraid to see me in person... he’s told me like he doesn’t talk to anyone just his friends and me and I believe it because even with them the only time he goes out is on weekends.... it makes me so confused and I feel like I wish he would communicate his feelings more. Everyone tells me to give up on him and that all the other guy’s interested in me are better but I don’t feel that way at all... and as long as he wants to talk I don’t want to give up on him but I wish he’d see me in person. I’m so confused 🤷🏼‍♀️