Should I have a gender reveal party

Christina • Cancer survivor, working full-time Mom, pregnant with 2nd daughter
My parents don't want to come because they don't want to know if it's a boy or girl. My younger, pregnant sister said she would attend back in March. I planned the whole thing around her because she works crazy hours. Now I find out she won't be coming because she "accidentally" made plans recently with my parents. I have been wanting to have this party for months now...and now my own family doesn't want to attend. My in laws will be there...but it's just embarrassing to throw a party and not have anyone from your own family there. (Of course they are all attending my sister's 2nd baby shower in 2 weeks though)
I have had a pretty crappy pregnancy so far being very sick, been miserable, on so many different types of meds, found out I have Placenta Previa, and having pelvic issues/problems walking. Guess I just wanted to celebrate being pregnant. I am just sad my family doesn't seem to care...while my in-laws are so overbearing. 
Should I still have the party? Or should I cancel and not tell anyone (screw them all)?

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