trying to stay positive

my husband loves my curves but i’m always struggling to love them. i’m always stressing about how i look and how i eat, and he tells me to stop worrying about it but i don’t know how. i lost 30 pounds my senior year (150 to 120) then gained it back freshman year (got up to 180) i’m in my sophomore year now and i’m back to 155 and i’m just not sure how to lose that last bit of body fat. i have tried to get tattoos and piercings to feel more at home in my own skin but i’m also nervous to show them off because of it. my main worries are my arms, legs, and tummy. my waist is really tiny, my rib cage (the actual bone, i’m really lean near my chest) is big, and so are my thighs, so it’s tough to find clothes that fit but i just dropped a pants size. (this is the only picture i could find of my whole body because of my insecurities 😅)

arms