November might not be my month

I know it's only the 2nd but my fertile week starts next week and my husband is in the hospital. We spent 8 hours in the ER last night to be told he has diverticulitis. He was admitted to the hospital due to the pain and his previous health issues. He also end stage renal failure and needs a kidney. This morning, we were told he was misdiagnosed in the ER and he actually has colitis. He got a bacterial infection in his colon from somewhere. He is in a lot of pain and his blood pressure keeps getting out of hand. I am more concerned about my husband and his health than TTC but I was really looking forward to this being our month.