Why are guys such assholes

So I’m talking to this guy and he seemed really cool and we were gonna hang out today cuz hes been telling me how much he’s wanted to hang out and when I messaged him asking if we were still gonna hang he was like yeah I’m going to a football game at 6:30 so that’s obviously gonna be a couple hours but we can do something after and I was like okay what do u wanna do? And he’s said we could smoke and just chill and I told him I’m not really smoking anymore and he’s like damn I really wanted to smoke with you so I was like sorry but we can do something else if you still wanna hang and he responded with “word I’ll let you know” and I just replied okay... but what the actual fuck he tells me how much he wants to hang then is all like nvm I don’t wanna cuz u don’t wanna smoke. So now I’m just hella pissed cuz I swear every guy I talk to is always like this and only wants to smoke and chill it fucking sucks🙄